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Peer
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Resetting a peer relationship that has gone cold

You and a colleague you depend on have drifted into short emails and avoided conversations.

Strategy

Name the drift, own the half you can, and ask for one small mechanism instead of a fresh start. Vague goodwill wears off by Thursday; a standing ten minutes does not.

How this one opens

I want to name something rather than let it sit.

This is the first line of the full script for this exact situation.

What usually happens next

Most likely: "honestly I hadn't thought about it much"

One thing not to say

You've been really difficult lately

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