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Insubordination
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Handling a report who challenges you in front of the team

A direct report pushes back on your decision publicly, in a way that puts the room on edge.

Strategy

Stop the debate in the room without shaming them, then do the real conversation within the hour. Winning it publicly costs you the team; ignoring it costs you the standard.

How this one opens

In the room: "I am going to stop this here.

This is the first line of the full script for this exact situation.

What usually happens next

Most likely: one more attempt to win the point in the room, then a grudging stop.

One thing not to say

Do not undermine me in front of the team

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