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Insubordination
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Handling an employee who ignores your direction

A report keeps doing it their way after you have given clear direction.

Strategy

Separate disagreement from non-compliance. Invite the disagreement openly, then make clear that the decision holds once it is made. Document it.

How this one opens

We need to be clear with each other.

This is the first line of the full script for this exact situation.

What usually happens next

Most likely: a process argument — the requirement is slow, and the shortcut worked fine.

One thing not to say

Because I am the manager, that is why

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